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		<title>Men&#8217;s forum demands national commission for them!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Aug 2010 09:59:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;The Hindu&#8221; reports from Salem: SALEM: A national-level coordination forum of men has called for protection from wives and live-in partners whom they charged with exploiting women&#8217;s welfare legislation that arm them with ‘unbridled&#8217; power to act against men. The men, who claim to be ‘victims&#8217; of such legislation from all over the country, spent [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://hindu.com/2010/08/17/stories/2010081754400500.htm">&#8220;The Hindu&#8221; reports</a> from Salem:</p>
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<p>SALEM: A national-level coordination forum of men has called for protection from wives and live-in partners whom they charged with exploiting women&#8217;s welfare legislation that arm them with ‘unbridled&#8217; power to act against men.</p>
<p>The men, who claim to be ‘victims&#8217; of such legislation from all over the country, spent three days in a resort at the hill station of Yercaud near here to deliberate on how to protect themselves and their kith and kin from harassment and to kick-start a campaign to impress upon policy-makers to think about their plight before enacting such lop-sided laws.</p>
<p>The forum said that many women were abusing these laws for nefarious gains by filing charges against their husbands and partners.</p>
<p>The provisions in these statutes, they called, were ‘anti-men&#8217; leading to suicide of nearly 60,000 men as against 32,000 women annually.</p>
<p>Between 2004 and 2008, seven lakh men and family members were arrested including 500 minors and 5000 aged people, they claimed.<br />
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They pointed out that, for instance, laws such as the Dowry Prohibition Act, Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act, Sec 125 of Cr. PC and above all Section 498A of Indian Penal Code were too stringent and non-bailable.</p>
<p><strong>Women&#8217;s lobbies</strong></p>
<p>“Though a debate is going on in legal circles on whether to amend or not especially Sec 498A to prevent its abuse, a few powerful women&#8217;s lobbies are blocking it,” said <em>Suresh Ram</em>, National Collegium member, <strong>All India Men&#8217;s Welfare Association</strong>, which organised the 3rd Men&#8217;s Rights Conference of the Delhi-based <a href="http://saveindianfamily.org/">Save Indian Family Foundation</a> at Yercaud in Salem district.</p>
<p>Delegates from Maharashtra, Assam, West Bengal, Uttar Pradesh, Karnataka, Andhra Pradesh, Chattisgarh, Madhya Pradesh and from the U.S. attended the deliberations.</p>
<p>A majority of them were from Karnataka, mainly young Information Technology professionals. They said that they would urge the government to replace the words ‘Husband and Wife&#8217; with ‘Person&#8217; in the said acts. They said that cases before Family Courts should be expedited and settled within two years.</p>
<p>The government would be approached to form National Commission for Men, they add.</p>
<p>Thanks: The Hindu</p>
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		<title>Nationwide Boycott of Family Courts</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jun 2010 08:26:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[On 18 June 2010 – Friday before FATHERS’ DAY Press Release All India Men’s Welfare Association (AIMWA) is an organization formed to protect the Constitutional and Human Rights of men and boys. We fight against gender discrimination, legal terrorism and every other form of abuse suffered by men and boys. AIMWA is organizing a Nationwide [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>On 18 June 2010 – Friday before FATHERS’ DAY</strong></p>
<p><strong>Press Release</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://aimwa.in/wp-content/uploads/boycott-family-court.jpg"><img src="http://aimwa.in/wp-content/uploads/boycott-family-court-300x211.jpg" alt="Boycott family court" title="Boycott family court" width="300" height="211" class="alignright size-medium wp-image-186" /></a><strong>All India Men’s Welfare Association (AIMWA)</strong> is an organization formed to protect the Constitutional and Human Rights of men and boys. We fight against gender discrimination, legal terrorism and every other form of abuse suffered by men and boys.</p>
<p>AIMWA is organizing a Nationwide Boycott of the Family Courts on 18 June 2010 – the Friday before Fathers’ Day – as a sign of protest against the Family Court system which blatantly discriminates against fathers, heartlessly separates them from and prevents their access to their own biological children.</p>
<p>We concur with the recent observation of the Hon’ble Supreme Court of India that “the Hindu Marriage Act is breaking more families than uniting”. We would like to add that the worst sufferers of the Indian Family Court system are fathers and children.</p>
<p>Indian Family Courts have declared a war against fathers and are adopting every possible means to create a “Fatherless Society”. The modus operandi of the Family Courts includes:</p>
<ul>
<li>Depriving fathers of the right to love and care for their biological children.</li>
<li>Forcing fathers to pay huge sums of money to support children they are not allowed to see.</li>
<li>Encouraging false allegations of abuse to paint fathers as unfit parents.</li>
<li>Permitting multiple legal battles by mothers to eliminate biological fathers from their children’s lives.</li>
<li>Passing ex-parte orders based solely on the allegations made by a child’s mother.</li>
<li>Allowing mothers to brazenly disobey visitation orders without legal repercussions to her.</li>
<li>Allowing biological fathers to be labelled “kidnappers” for trying to make contact with their own children.</li>
<li>Prolonging custody/visitation matters for years, thereby driving fathers into financial and emotional bankruptcy and forcing them to give up the desire to see their children.</li>
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It is time everyone recognizes that:</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>denying access to one’s own  biological children is abuse of human rights.</strong></li>
<li><strong>depriving children of the love and care of their biological father is abuse of children’s rights.</strong></li>
</ul>
<p>AIMWA hereby registers its vehement protest against the separation of fathers from their biological children, and the concomitant violation of Human Rights perpetrated by the Family Court system against fathers and children.</p>
<p>AIMWA shall continue to agitate against the Family Court system until the following demands are met:</p>
<ol>
<li>Special fast-track courts should be set up at the earliest to deal with custody issues.</li>
<li>Exclusive, fully functioning Divisional Bench should be set up in all High Courts and Supreme Court to hear appeals in matters of child custody.</li>
<li>When a person or couple approaches court for divorce, counseling of the parents by professional counselors should be given first priority.</li>
<li>Except in extreme cases of violence or unhealthy behavior by either partner, children should be given equal and meaningful access to both parents and grandparents on both sides.</li>
<li>Both parents should be given financial responsibility of the child proportionate to their earnings and not based on demands made by either partner.</li>
<li>If a partner prevents a child from having equal and meaningful contact with the other partner, they should be counseled first to understand the importance of equal parenting and the best interest of a child.</li>
<li>If either partner repeatedly disobeys orders of equal access and meaningful contact with children, then the children should be placed in the full custody of the partner who will allow equal access to the other parent.</li>
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<p><strong><a href="http://go2.wordpress.com/?id=725X1342&#038;site=uchalla.wordpress.com&#038;url=http%3A%2F%2Fuchalla.files.wordpress.com%2F2010%2F06%2Ffathers-day-flyer.pdf&#038;sref=http%3A%2F%2Fuchalla.wordpress.com%2F">Boycott Family Courts!</a></strong></p>
<p>AIMWA hereby calls upon all fathers to:</p>
<ul>
<li>Join our Nationwide Boycott of Family Courts on 18 June 2010 as a symbol of protest against the creation of a fatherless society!</li>
<li>Sign our Petition listing out the changes we demand from the Family Court system in child custody matters!</li>
<li>Refuse to pay maintenance and child support unless the aforementioned demands are met!</li>
<li>Settle for nothing less than free and fair access to their children and an equal opportunity to build a meaningful relationship with their children!</li>
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		<title>Protect men from misuse of laws by women</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Apr 2010 11:49:57 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>‘Spare a thought for men’</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://expressbuzz.com/cities/chennai/%E2%80%98spare-a-thought-for-men%E2%80%99/166368.html">Express News Service</a>. 19 Apr 2010</p>
<p><a href="http://aimwa.in/wp-content/uploads/harassedman.jpg"><img src="http://aimwa.in/wp-content/uploads/harassedman-225x300.jpg" alt="harassed man" title="harassed man" width="225" height="300" class="alignright size-medium wp-image-181" /></a>CHENNAI: This is a stag party with a difference. Men, who accuse their girl friends, wives and fiancees of duping them or foisting cases against them, have come together in Tamil Nadu to put up a collective fight.</p>
<p>According to the general secretary of Association for Protection of Men, Madhu Sudhanan, more than 1000 members are aged below 25 years and 4000 members are below 40.</p>
<p>At a meeting on Sunday, attended by over 50 men, there was a talk about rights and laws favouring women. But the association is not to protect men from the the misuse of the Domestic Violence Act and Dowry Harassment Act <strong>alone</strong> but also youngsters falsely accused of eve teasing.</p>
<p>As one man said: “I was dragged by the police and beaten up in the station. If a girl has a personal enmity, she takes it out by falsely accusing men of eve-teasing. And there is no verification done by the police when it comes to women, they just accept what she says as the sacred truth.” Another member of the association said that he was right now on the streets after he registered his family property in the name of his lover, who conveniently duped him after that.<br />
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Madhu Sudanan said that many young men were being cheated by girl friends &#8211; they emotionally ditch the man, by marrying men of their parents’ choice. But such cheating was never taken as a crime, he said. Most of the association members had been harassed by women &#8211; wives, girlfriends, fiancées &#8211; or duped.</p>
<p>But the system is biased towards women, Madhu Sudanan said, and added there are 84 laws for the protection of women’s rights, but none for men.</p>
<p>“Gone are the days when women were exploited. Now, many women misuse the laws meant for their protection. Many young men have been trapped by the laws.</p>
<p>Many youth ditched by girl friends are unnecessarily harassed by police following false complaints, another association member in his mid-30s, said.</p>
<p>Topics: <a href="http://expressbuzz.com/topic/association-for-protection-of-men">Association for Protection of Men</a></p>
<p><strong>Comments:</strong></p>
<p>Replace the word in Domestic violence act the men/women to person and husband/wife to spouse, let the punishment equal for all who do the domestic violence, will women organisations will agree, if they think they do not do the domestic violence against men?</p>
<p>By Swarup<br />
4/19/2010 9:45:00 AM </p>
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		<title>Reality check on domestic violence</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Apr 2010 13:44:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Certain women’s organisations have been stereotyping the issue of domestic violence. They have presented a picture that conveys the impression that only women are victims of domestic violence while we have with us global surveys and over 250 scholarly studies that show that women are at least as likely as men to engage in partner aggression and that partner violence is often mutual.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://aimwa.in/wp-content/uploads/domestic-violence.jpg"><img src="http://aimwa.in/wp-content/uploads/domestic-violence-282x300.jpg" alt="Violent wives and meek husbands" title="Violent wives and meek husbands" width="282" height="300" class="alignright size-medium wp-image-178" /></a><strong>A survey to straighten issues!</strong></p>
<p><em>… that’s what men’s organisations in the city are now looking to conduct</em></p>
<p> ~ MANIGANDAN K R. Times News Network</p>
<p>    Seeking to counter certain “exaggerated” claims made by some women’s organisations and in a bid to draw the attention of the government to the plight of men victimised by lop-sided laws drafted on the basis of such claims, men’s organisations in the city have now embarked upon the task of conducting a massive domestic violence survey.</p>
<p>    The results of the nationwide survey, widely believed to be the first of its kind for men in the country, will be used to find out if whether Indian men too are victims of domestic violence, the percentage of Indian men subjected to such violence and the kind of violence they are subjected to.</p>
<p>    The need for the survey has been triggered, it seems, by the controversial Domestic Violence Act &#8211; 2005, which seems to have been drafted on the assumption that only women suffer domestic violence.</p>
<p>    Says <strong>Suresh Ram</strong>, member of the All India Men’s Welfare Association (<strong>AIMWA</strong>), an NGO working for the rights of men and boys, “Certain women’s organisations have been stereotyping the issue of domestic violence. They have presented a picture that conveys the impression that only women are victims of domestic violence while we have with us global surveys and over 250 scholarly studies that show that women are at least as likely as men to engage in partner aggression and that partner violence is often mutual.<span id="more-177"></span> This fact is established if one goes through the Domestic Violence Study conducted by a well-known global organisation that has done the survey in over 32 countries including India. However, the Domestic Violence Act in India offers protection to only women and not men.” </p>
<p>He further adds, “So, to set things right, we men’s organisations have joined hands to ensure that a credible and transparent survey on the issue is done. Eight men’s organisations are involved in this effort which is being led by the AIMWA. We have begun negotiations with survey agencies to conduct the survey in certain cities of the country including Chennai, Delhi, Kolkata, Bangalore and Hyderabad. We intend to publish the results on Nov 19, the International Men’s Day.” </p>
<p>So, what do they intend to achieve by conducting such a survey? Says Suresh, “We intend to create an awareness in society about the problems faced by men. We wish to present to them the real situation in society. We will also seek to draw the government’s attention to issues concerning men and reiterate our demand for setting up a National Commission for Men and a Men’s Welfare Ministry.” </p>
<p>Men in the city are delighted with the move by the men’s organisations. Welcoming such a survey, Shankar, a graphics designer, says, “I certainly welcome the move. It is high time that facts were presented on this issue.” </p>
<p>Women too seem to be for such a survey. Says Dakshayini Sampath, a media professional, “While I think that more number of women suffer domestic violence, it’s also possible that men are victims. I think the law should hold good for both genders and if this survey is going to help bring about a uniform law, then I’m all for it.” </p>
<p>News courtesy: <a href="http://epaper.timesofindia.com/Default/Scripting/ArticleWin.asp?From=Archive&#038;Source=Page&#038;Skin=TOINEW&#038;BaseHref=TOICH%2F2010%2F04%2F19&#038;ViewMode=GIF&#038;GZ=T&#038;PageLabel=19&#038;EntityId=Ar01901&#038;AppName=1">Chennai Times</a>.</p>
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		<title>Male Disposability – Myth or Reality</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Male Disposability – does the term strike any resonance with your thought process? Or is it that before striking any resonance do I need to ask the basic question – Do you even realize what Male Disposability is? If yes, then you probably know what’s going to be in the article. If no, read on [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://aimwa.in/wp-content/uploads/male-abuse.jpg"><img src="http://aimwa.in/wp-content/uploads/male-abuse-150x101.jpg" alt="" title="Male abuse" width="150" height="101" class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-165" /></a><a href="http://menaregood.com/trash.html">Male Disposability</a> – does the term strike any resonance with your thought process? Or is it that before striking any resonance do I need to ask the basic question – Do you even realize what Male Disposability is? If yes, then you probably know what’s going to be in the article. If no, read on to know it.</p>
<p><strong>Male Disposability is a psychological behavioral and attitudinal syndrome that considers Men as “</strong><em>Disposable and Expendable</em><strong>” and invests very low emotional resources with males which ultimately leads to an environment insensitive to the problems of the male world or one that automatically eliminates weak men (or men finished off with their utility) viewing them as liability.</strong></p>
<p>Since time immemorial, be it the life-endangering activity of hunting or saving the country-land or guarding the parameters of geographical boundary or maintaining law and order situation in the society – the latter two correlate to hunting human life – this role has always been attributed to men who have donned the same willingly boosted by their testosterone and chivalry. <strong>In a nutshell men have been hunters primarily and that is a defunct role in today’s era of pacification and intellectual progress.</strong><br />
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However, the traits of history are hard to remove and the hunter’s traits have continued into today’s men as well who are actually a misfit in the society with their hunting background and their genetic and evolutionary affiliation to a hunting tribe. No wonders problems of men have skyrocketed and courtesy the <strong>Male Disposability Syndrome</strong>, no one is bothered about it.</p>
<p>Before talking more on <strong>Male Disposability</strong>, I would talk a bit on its genesis, taking cue from the article, <strong><a href="http://desicritics.org/2009/12/26/153540.php">Paradigm Shift in Male Identity: Freedom from Being a Hunter</a></strong>. During the hunting days, when men used to go on long hunting expeditions, any hunter talking of a minor leg pain or a slight backache was detrimental to the morale of the hunters and was silenced, trivializing his pain.</p>
<p>Even today the society has been pretty much the same for men. Earlier it was hunting, in today’s world its taking huge risks – financial, intellectual, emotional, physical, political – to name a few, that men are expected of and in such a situation, talking of small problems like an emotional turmoil in a relationship or facing lack of freedom of choices will bring down the morale of other risk-taking hunters and thus men are discouraged from expressing their pain.</p>
<p>This leads to a lot of psycho-emotional suffocation within men which has a direct bearing on their lifestyle, life-expectancy, health and suicide rate as visible from the following data collected from various sources of the Government.</p>
<p>Interestingly, in this so called <strong>MALE DOMINATED</strong> <strong>WORLD</strong>, the <strong>DOMINATED MALES</strong> never get a voice as corroborated by the following figures.</p>
<p><a href="http://mohfw.nic.in/dofw%20website/Health%20&amp;%20Poulation%20Indicators/hpi%20frame.htm">Life Expectancy Data</a>:</p>
<p><img src="http://aimwa.in/wp-content/uploads/life-expectancy-data.jpg" alt="" title="Life expectancy data" width="645" height="479" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-159" /></p>
<p>Plotted as a Graph looks something like,</p>
<p><img src="http://aimwa.in/wp-content/uploads/life-expectancy-graph.jpg" alt="" title="Life expectancy graph" width="954" height="596" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-160" /></p>
<p>The data about suicides is also not very welcoming but a true and sad reality to which currently the society is insensitive and cold.</p>
<p><img src="http://aimwa.in/wp-content/uploads/suicide-data-india.jpg" alt="" title="Suicide data of India" width="443" height="335" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-164" /></p>
<p>Plotted as a Graph, looks something like</p>
<p><img src="http://aimwa.in/wp-content/uploads/marital-suicides.jpg" alt="" title="Marital suicides" width="956" height="595" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-162" /></p>
<p>The above data clearly points to the stress in men’s lives due to which they not only commit suicide in large numbers (approaching double that of women) but who survive the turmoil, live shorter. That being the reality, there is also another grim reality and that is</p>
<p><strong>NO SOCIAL / LEGAL / PSYCHOLOGICAL SUPPORT STRUCTURE AVAILABLE FOR MEN.</strong></p>
<p>Quintessentially the problems of the male world are oblivious to the society and as long as men are discharging their duties no one really needs to bother about them and can readily dispose them off, after all even Mother Nature produces them in abundance; what with the normal gender birth ratio being 950 females : 1000 males.</p>
<p><strong>Choice is left with readers to decide whether Male Disposability is a Myth or a Reality?</strong></p>
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		<title>Gillette calls Prime Minister Manmohan Singh lazy</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Dec 2009 11:38:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>CyberBrahma</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[DNA reports on the fallout of the ill-conceived Gillette campaign &#8211; &#8220;Shave India Movement, Women against Lazy Stubble&#8221;. AIMWA has lodged a protest with the Advertising Standards Council of India (ASCI) that the latest campaign by P &#38; G &#8220;spreads hatred among genders&#8221; and &#8220;hurts religious sentiments.&#8221; If Gillette chooses to term all Indians who [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.dnaindia.com/india/report_men-stand-up-for-their-stubbly-chins_1323448">DNA reports</a> on the fallout of the ill-conceived Gillette campaign &#8211; &#8220;Shave India Movement, Women against Lazy Stubble&#8221;. AIMWA has lodged a protest with the Advertising Standards Council of India (ASCI) that the latest campaign by P &amp; G &#8220;spreads hatred among genders&#8221; and &#8220;hurts religious sentiments.&#8221;</p>
<p><a href="http://aimwa.in/wp-content/uploads/manmohan-singh.jpg"><img src="http://aimwa.in/wp-content/uploads/manmohan-singh-300x215.jpg" alt="manmohan singh" title="manmohan singh" width="300" height="215" class="alignright size-medium wp-image-149" /></a>If Gillette chooses to term all Indians who grow beards as &#8220;lazy&#8221;, then their campaign denigrates the Indian Prime Minister Mr. Manmohan Singh who sports beard as per the custom of his religion, the Sikhism, as &#8220;lazy&#8221;. Is it not an affront to the honour of the whole nation?</p>
<p>Gillette owes a public apology for denigrating the high office of the Prime Minister of India.<br />
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Here is an excerpt from the report of <abbr title="Daily News and Analysis">DNA</abbr>:</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;In the Gillette campaign, men who do not shave or those who wear stubble are shown to be lazy, so their women have every right to detest and demean them,&#8221; said Mumbai-based PR Gokul of the All India Men&#8217;s Welfare Association (AIMWA). &#8220;Gillette also tags this campaign as women on the warpath. We feel it portrays men negatively and tries to curb their choices&#8221; said Mumbai-based PR Gokul of the All India Men&#8217;s Welfare Association.<br />
Proctor and Gamble (P&#038;G) claimed that the campaign was based on research findings. &#8220;Serving men since 1895, their well-being is at the heart of every decision that Gillette takes. In that spirit we respect all ideologies, communities and opinions that men have. WALS is a creative expression of research findings by AC Nielsen which state that a majority of women prefer their with a men clean shaven look. Our campaign is not an imposition of such views on men who feel differently or wish to grow facial hair out of choice. Our endeavour is to provide superior quality shaving products to men who wish to shave,&#8221; said P&#038;G spokesperson.</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;By calling men with stubble lazy, P&#038;G have made a communal statement,&#8221; said Myth Kumar from Bangalore. Terming the campaign in bad taste, the Shahi Imam of Delhi&#8217;s Jama Masjid said, &#8220;Sikhs and Muslims wear beards due to religious reasons. But their wives do not complain. Companies should be careful of religious sentiments before running campaigns,&#8221; said Bukhari.</p></blockquote>
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		<title>Men are people too!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Dec 2009 08:23:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>CyberBrahma</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Men are people too. Due to the rigid male sex role of &#8220;provide and protect&#8221; and the cultural response to this role seeing men as disposable, men&#8217;s needs and vulnerabilities have been ignored and downplayed. Men have been &#8220;ground down&#8221; by dying in wars, taking dangerous jobs, being separated from their children and families, and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://aimwa.in/wp-content/uploads/homeless.jpg"><img src="http://aimwa.in/wp-content/uploads/homeless-150x111.jpg" alt="Homeless men" title="Homeless men" width="150" height="111" class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-141" /></a>Men are people too. Due to the rigid male sex role of &#8220;provide and protect&#8221; and the cultural response to this role seeing men as disposable, men&#8217;s needs and vulnerabilities have been ignored and downplayed. Men have been &#8220;ground down&#8221; by dying in wars, taking dangerous jobs, being separated from their children and families, and many other ways this little video highlights.</p>
<p><strong>&#8220;Be He live or be He dead, I&#8217;ll grind his bones to make my Bread!&#8221;</strong></p>
<p><span class="youtube">
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</span><p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DHz76mMMim0&fmt=18">www.youtube.com/watch?v=DHz76mMMim0</a></p></p>
<p>(Thanks: <a href="http://www.youtube.com/user/1menaregood1">1menaregood1</a>)</p>
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		<title>Men Are Human Too</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Dec 2009 08:52:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Uma Challa</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today marks the conclusion of the “16 Days of Activism Against Global Feminist Terrorism” by All India Men’s Welfare Association (AIMWA) and All India Forgotten Women’s Association (AIFWA).]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://aimwa.in/wp-content/uploads/16-days-1.jpg" alt="16 days of activism against global feminist terrorism" title="16 days of activism against global feminist terrorism" width="600" height="37" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-64" /></p>
<p><a href="http://aimwa.in/wp-content/uploads/battered-man.jpg"><img src="http://aimwa.in/wp-content/uploads/battered-man-150x150.jpg" alt="Battered man" title="Battered man" width="150" height="150" class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-138" /></a>Today, 10 December 2009, marks the conclusion of the <strong>“16 Days of Activism Against Global Feminist Terrorism”</strong> by All India Men’s Welfare Association (AIMWA) and All India Forgotten Women’s Association (AIFWA). </p>
<p>Today, UN and all countries around the world are also observing Human Rights Day, with “non-discrimination” as this year’s theme.</p>
<p>Commenting on this year’s theme Mr. Ban Ki-moon said, “Discrimination targets individuals and groups that are vulnerable to attack: the disabled, women and girls, the poor, migrants, minorities, and all those who are perceived as different.”</p>
<p>Most people will not miss seeing the word “men” in the list of “vulnerable groups” mentioned above. I am sure majority of men, including the UN Secretary General himself, do not know that they belong in the list.<br />
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This is not surprising, as Mr. Ban Ki-moon himself said, “It is often those who most need their human rights protected, who also need to be informed that the Declaration exists &#8212; and that it exists for them.” </p>
<p>During our 16 Days of Activism Against Global Feminist Terrorism, we highlighted the serious human rights abuses that men are subjected to in the name of women’s rights and the collateral damages suffered by women, children and families. </p>
<p>While the Universal Declaration of Human Rights claims to be “a reaffirmation of the faith of the peoples of the UN in fundamental human rights, in the dignity and worth of the human person and in the equal rights of men and women”, it is amply clear that in most parts of the world men are not treated with the dignity and respect that human beings deserve. </p>
<p>On the contrary, social and legal discrimination against men and violation of their human rights are now projected as praiseworthy goals for all present nations and future generations. </p>
<p><em>The Universal Declaration of Human Rights states:</em></p>
<ul>
<li>Everyone has the right to life, liberty and security of person.</li>
<li>No one shall be subjected to torture or to cruel, inhuman or degrading treatment or punishment.</li>
<li>Everyone charged with a penal offence has the right to be presumed innocent until proved guilty according to law in a public trial at which he has had all the guarantees necessary for his defence.</li>
<li>No one shall be subjected to arbitrary interference with his privacy, family, home or correspondence, nor to attacks upon his honour and reputation. Everyone has the right to the protection of the law against such interference or attacks.</li>
</ul>
<p>In blatant violation of all the above rights, thousands of husbands and their families are arbitrarily arrested every year, without evidence or investigation, under IPC Sections 498A, 304-B, Dowry Prohibition Act, and related laws which presume that the accused are “guilty until proved innocent”. </p>
<p>India’s National Human Rights Commission (NHRC) has noted the misuse of dowry laws, arrest of innocent individuals and the resultant overcrowding of prisons. NHRC has urged the judiciary and law enforcement agencies to take measures against these abuses. </p>
<p><a href="http://aimwa.in/wp-content/uploads/men-have-problems.jpg"><img src="http://aimwa.in/wp-content/uploads/men-have-problems-150x112.jpg" alt="Men too have problems" title="Men too have problems" width="150" height="112" class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-136" /></a>Nevertheless, police routinely enter people’s homes at ungodly hours, take accused individuals into custody, and incarcerate them without bail for variable lengths of time, ranging from a couple of days to several months. Innocent citizens are illegally detained, humiliated, subjected to mental and physical torture, blackmail and extortion, driving many to commit suicide. The honor and reputation of these accused individuals is attacked through media trial and unrestrained slander by feminists every day. </p>
<p><em>The Universal Declaration of Human rights states:</em> </p>
<ul>
<li>Men and women are entitled to equal rights as to marriage, during marriage and at its dissolution.</li>
<li>All are equal before the law, and are entitled without any discrimination to equal protection of the law.</li>
</ul>
<p>Family and marriage related laws in India exhibit nothing but discrimination against men and fathers. Men are blatantly denied social and legal protection from domestic abuse. Men suffering domestic abuse are compelled to endure several years of legal harassment and are often denied divorce citing “lack of strong grounds”. </p>
<p>Men also endure false allegations of abuse made by wives seeking divorce, and end up with a divorce they never wanted. Fathers are ruthlessly denied contact with their children, and forced to pay exorbitant sums of money as alimony and child support.</p>
<p><em>The Universal Declaration of Human rights states:</em></p>
<ul>
<li>Everyone has the right to own property alone as well as in association with others.</li>
<li>No one shall be arbitrarily deprived of his property.</li>
</ul>
<p>The Indian Domestic Violence Act empowers a wife to violate marital norms with impunity and claim residence and maintenance from the husband. Many men and their families are thrown out of or deprived freedom of movement in their own homes, upon baseless allegations of abuse made by unscrupulous wives.</p>
<p>Mr. Ban ki-moon asserts, “It is our duty to ensure that these (human) rights are a living reality &#8212; that they are known, understood and enjoyed by everyone, everywhere.”</p>
<p>It is ironical that the United Nations and its affiliate organizations sponsor these human rights violations and legal terrorism through feminist initiatives claiming to uplift and empower women.</p>
<p>On the occasion of Human Rights Day 2009, <a href="http://www.aimwa.in/">AIMWA</a> and <a href="http://www.aifwa.info/">AIFWA</a> urge you to raise your voice against global feminist terrorism, which is responsible for large scale human rights abuses against men and their kin.</p>
<p>We demand that the UN declares <strong>“Men are human too”</strong> as the theme for Human Rights Day 2010.</p>
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		<title>&#8220;Committed to the cause of women&#8221; &#8211; The Trojan Horse of Indian Feminism</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Dec 2009 03:33:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sai</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The feminists' true agenda is to infiltrate and subvert the institutions like the judiciary and the law enforcement, from the inside.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://aimwa.in/wp-content/uploads/16-day-activism-5.jpg" alt="16 days of activism against feminist terrorism" title="16 days of activism against feminist terrorism" width="600" height="47" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-69" /></p>
<p><a href="http://aimwa.in/wp-content/uploads/loud-woman-1.jpg"><img src="http://aimwa.in/wp-content/uploads/loud-woman-1-114x150.jpg" alt="shrieking woman" title="shrieking woman" width="114" height="150" class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-131" /></a>“Committed to the cause of women” is the phrase you encounter frequently when you peruse the legislation proposed by the feminist outfits like Lawyers Collective and NCW. You also hear this phrase in the numerous representations made to the authorities by the feminists. Examples include the draft Sexual Harassment bill where the Service Providers “committed to the cause of women” were to be given powers to arbitrate the disputes. Similarly, in the representations made to the Government by the radical feminist outfits like AIDWA and Lawyers Collective, they are demanding filling up the judiciary and the police with officers “committed to the cause of women”.<br />
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Questions raised in any thinking individual’s mind when one hears the phrase “committed to the cause of women” include –</p>
<ol style="list-style-type: lower-alpha;">
<li> What is the meaning of “cause of women”?   Is it related to women’s advancement in various areas of social life? Is it arming a woman with unchecked power to unleash “legal terrorism” against anyone at her fancy? Is it achieving true gender equality, so women are given equal opportunity to advance in any area of endeavor on par with men? What is the true cause of women?</li>
<li>Which particular segment of women’s cause is it? Urban women or rural women? Rich women or poor women? Educated or semi-educated or uneducated? Mothers-in-laws/sister-in-laws or the daughters-in-laws? Live-ins or wives? What if the cause of one segment of women is in direct opposition to the cause of another segment? Which segment’s cause should take precedence?</li>
<li> Can the authorities, whether they are in the judiciary or in the executive like the police, who derive their powers from the constitution and democratic institutions, be committed to the cause of one section of the society at the expense of another section of the society?</li>
<li>Where should the commitment of an individual who professes to practice a certain profession lie?</li>
</ol>
<p> The “cause of the women” from the legislation already passed so far, and the legislation proposed, appears to be neither the true advancement of women nor the redress for victimized women, but that of arming an urban, upwardly mobile shrew with unchecked powers to unleash the full force of state machinery on unsuspecting individuals at her fancy. It is that segment of women’s cause that the radical feminists are vociferously advocating and advancing.</p>
<p> Coming to the last two questions raised above, it is obvious an individual’s commitment must lay towards the cause of the profession he or she professes to practice and not towards one section of the citizenry at the expense of the other. This is particularly applicable in professional matters, no matter what his or her private opinions or viewpoints may be.</p>
<p> For example, there is a doctor in your town who is “committed to the cause of women”. She routinely administers incorrect medicines to her male patients, often causing death and disability, because of her belief that all men are abusers of women. Would you condone such a doctor? Would you be willing to send your son, your father or your brother to such a doctor for treatment?</p>
<p> Now imagine that the judicial ranks are filled with judges “committed to the cause of women” and not to the cause of truth, law and justice. What would be the confidence level of a citizen who approaches such a court for justice? What if the accused person in such a court is a female and the victim a male? What confidence could the citizens repose in any judgments delivered from such a court?</p>
<p> In the same way, when police ranks are filled with persons “committed to the cause of women”, instead of to the cause of upholding law, what kind of redress can a citizen expect when approaching such a biased agency?</p>
<p> From the above, it is amply clear that “committed to the cause of women” is not the right commitment for any professional – whether one is a judicial officer, a doctor, a lawyer, the police; or for that matter any other professional.</p>
<p> Then what is the true agenda of the radical feminists when they exhort the authorities for the appointment of officials “committed to the cause of women”?</p>
<p> Their true agenda is an insidious attempt to infiltrate and subvert the sacred institutions of our democratic society, like the judiciary and the law enforcement, from the inside. This phrase “committed to the cause of women”, as innocuous as it may sound, is the most dangerous Trojan Horse let loose on our society by the radical feminists, that all civil society must vigorously guard against.</p>
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		<title>Press Release: Announcing December 7 as the National Stubble Day</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Dec 2009 07:50:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Virag Dhulia</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A stubble is a man’s right and no one has any right whatsoever to dictate when he should shave or whether he should shave even. It is completely a man’s discretion whether he should remain clean-shaven or stubbled or bearded or unshaven. 

By calling men who sport stubble as lazy, Gillette and its parent company Procter and Gamble have issued a Communal Hate Speech as there are enough religious minorities in India who have religious reservations against shaving and also a Gender Hate Speech against men. AIMWA strongly protests it and condemns it outright.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1 style="text-align: center">PRESS RELEASE</h1>
<p style="text-align: justify"><strong>About AIMWA:</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: justify"><a href="http://aimwa.in/">All India Men’s Welfare Association (AIMWA)</a> is the first ever organization formed in India to fight against all kinds of discrimination against men and boys. AIMWA was launched in Hyderabad on 11<sup>th</sup> October 2009 and has expanded to Bangalore and Chennai within two months of its launch with around 1000 members.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify"><strong>Background</strong>:</p>
<p style="text-align: justify">Gillette, the manufacturer of branded shaving products for men has come up with the idea of “<strong>Women against Lazy Stubble</strong>” wherein men not shaving, or men sporting stubble have been tagged as “<strong>lazy</strong>” and their women have every right to detest and demean them. And Gillette also tags this campaign as “<strong>Women on the warpath</strong>”. This ad campaign was launched on November 7, 2009 and includes campaigns on various media channels as well.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify"><strong>Objections</strong>:</p>
<p style="text-align: justify">AIMWA perceives this campaign as outright against men and is protesting against,</p>
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<li>Violation of fundamental rights of men.</li>
<li>Negative portrayal of men by calling them lazy.</li>
<li>Infringement of choices by men.</li>
<li>Unnecessary financial burden on men, and</li>
<li>Imposing of conditions on men.</li>
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<p style="text-align: justify">Additionally the views expressed in the “Women against Lazy Stubble” campaign and endorsed by Bollywood actresses Minisha Lamba, Neha Dhupia and Mugdha Godse about women’s preference of shaven/stubbled men does not represent the views of the average Indian Woman. As the campaign is being promoted by Procter and Gamble and it has a commercial interest in it, there is every reason to believe the views are bought off, especially when a group of women called “<strong><a href="http://uchalla.wordpress.com/2009/12/06/press-release-women-against-male-bashing/">Women Against Male-bashing (W.A.M)</a></strong>” have started the campaign called “<strong>Stop the War against Men and Boys</strong>”.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify">The views expressed by W.A.M in their press release aptly represent the views of the average Indian woman as there is no commercial interest involved in it and is a pure expression of thoughts by the Indian women about men and their right to CHOICE. Also, the campaign ignores the umpteen researches that have been done proving it’s actually the <a href="http://stubbleindia.wordpress.com/category/studies/">stubble in a man that attracts the woman</a>.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify"><strong>A stubble is a man’s right</strong> and no one has any right whatsoever to dictate when he should shave or whether he should shave even. It is completely a man’s discretion whether he should remain clean-shaven or stubbled or bearded or unshaven.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify">By calling men who sport stubble as lazy, Gillette and its parent company Procter and Gamble have issued a Communal Hate Speech as there are enough religious minorities in India who have religious reservations against shaving and also a <strong>Gender Hate Speech </strong>against men. AIMWA strongly protests it and condemns it outright. AIMWA views the campaign as downright sexist, anti-male and one that can have many disastrous consequences for men like,</p>
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<li>This campaign will lead to more men facing more domestic violence from their wives in the form of verbal abuse, economic abuse and emotional abuse. The campaign treats <strong>MEN as FREE ATM MACHINES </strong>and promotes domestic violence against men. Domestic violence is the numero uno killer for men as corroborated by suicide statistics from the National Crime Record Bureau. Every year more than 57000 married men are ending their lives.</li>
<li>This campaign adds to the never ending expectations, of the society in general and women in particular, from men.</li>
<li>This campaign ignores the countless contributions that men make to the society. It disrespects the fact that the most dangerous, precarious, menial and risky jobs are not only undertaken by men but it is also de-facto expected that they would do so. And if men stop doing those dangerous and risky jobs, the society would cease to run. Rather the campaign designers have chosen an optional activity as shaving as a benchmark to measure activeness of men. It cannot get any more pathetic.</li>
<li>This campaign encourages women to command men, which is a violation of fundamental rights of liberty granted under the Constitution of India.</li>
<li>The campaign commoditizes men for commercial purpose which is not acceptable. Today it’s shaving, tomorrow some other company might come up with some more such sexist campaigns spreading Gender Hatred in order to boost sales and it can be against anyone, men or women. This campaign is being protested against to pass a message to the Corporate World that they too have limits and they need to learn to respect them.</li>
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<p style="text-align: justify"><strong>Why National Stubble Day</strong>:</p>
<p style="text-align: justify">Because stubble is a man’s right and since Procter and Gamble is spreading hatred against men with stubble, AIMWA has come up with the idea of celebrating December 7 as the <strong>National Stubble Day</strong>. The members of AIMWA have decided not to shave on December 7 this year and the following years as well and urges other men to join us and strengthen the movement.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify"><strong>National Stubble Day</strong> is being marked to,</p>
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<li>Register AIMWA’s protest against the sexist anti-male ad campaign, “Women against Lazy Stubble”.</li>
<li>Protest against commoditization of men to boost consumerism.</li>
<li>Protest against rampant anti-male quotient in the society and unchallenged insults thrown at men treating them as second class citizens while ignoring the reality that men make some wonderful and indispensible contributions to societies and civilizations.</li>
<li>Raising voice against promoting Domestic Violence against Men using commercially motivated sexist anti male ad campaigns.</li>
<li>Assert a man’s rights and prevent infringement of the same.</li>
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<p style="text-align: justify">Additionally, on the occasion of National Stubble Day, AIMWA presents the following demands,</p>
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<li>Procter and Gamble to stop the “<strong>Women against Lazy Stubble</strong>” campaign immediately.</li>
<li>They should publish a 10 cm. X 12 cm. apology for insulting men, in all leading national dailies, on either the front page or back page.</li>
<li>Actresses Minisha Lamba, Neha Dhupia and Mugdha Godse should tender apologies to all men for calling them lazy and urging women to detest unshaven men.</li>
<li>Procter and Gamble should also tender an apology for making a <strong>Gender Hate Speech, </strong>and<strong> </strong></li>
<li>They should give an undertaking that they will never design sexist anti-male ad campaigns in future under any circumstances.</li>
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<p style="text-align: justify">If the above demands are not met, then AIMWA will be constrained to agitate the protest and intensify it and for that Procter and Gamble will be held responsible.</p>
<p style="text-align: right">Thanks and Regards</p>
<p style="text-align: right">President<br />
All India Men’s Welfare Association</p>
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