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		<title>By: Venth</title>
		<link>http://aimwa.in/reality-check-on-domestic-violence#comment-1265</link>
		<dc:creator>Venth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jul 2011 20:21:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: rajesh</title>
		<link>http://aimwa.in/reality-check-on-domestic-violence#comment-757</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Dec 2010 09:22:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>IT IS SHAME ON WORLD LARGEST DEMOCRACY THAT MEN DOES NOT  DESERVE A MEN MINISTRY.INDIAN GOVERMENT THINKS THAT MEN ARE NON LIVING THING .MEN HAS NO PROBLEMS AND SUFFRINGS.MEN SHOULD BE TREATED AS LIVING ORGAN OF SOCITY.IF MEN DOES NOT UNITE THEN THEY HAVE TO LEAVE THE WORLD.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>IT IS SHAME ON WORLD LARGEST DEMOCRACY THAT MEN DOES NOT  DESERVE A MEN MINISTRY.INDIAN GOVERMENT THINKS THAT MEN ARE NON LIVING THING .MEN HAS NO PROBLEMS AND SUFFRINGS.MEN SHOULD BE TREATED AS LIVING ORGAN OF SOCITY.IF MEN DOES NOT UNITE THEN THEY HAVE TO LEAVE THE WORLD.</p>
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		<title>By: umesh</title>
		<link>http://aimwa.in/reality-check-on-domestic-violence#comment-432</link>
		<dc:creator>umesh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2010 12:09:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You really wanna protect yourself from your wife then do this get (fake) affair with any other women use her to make your wife jealous as in the nature of one&#039;s women feel jealous of other women.



1. Try to call all the relatives ask them if they know about where she is ,you must pretend you are loving and caring husband try to get good amount of witness like neighbors relatives.

2. Get yourself good advocate tell him about the condition dont fall completely for his/her advice just get some tips what to do and apply for anticipatory bail, Get it for all members of your family.. ( just in case your wife file 498a against you and your parents).

3. Make a solid proof you are not living with your wife and she left the home without telling anyone and didnt call you for 2 months.

3. Send her a notice when she comes back like please come back home soon where are you... ;like that

4. IF she comes back good for you but if she wont and file FIR against you under 498a and dowry do the following.


Start gathering evidences in the form of letters, photos, videos and witnesses.
 
If possible provide money to your wife via cheque , keep a copy of the cheque with you 

Write registered letters to DGP of your state,Mahila Commision,etc. and keep a copy of them with you - this will save you from arbitary arrest

Apply for anticipatory bail. Get it for all members of your family. 

This is a criminal case; get a criminal lawyer with a good reputation, not a divorce lawyer.
 
Talk to people around you , send email to tv channel like aajtak,ibnlive ,etc. 

Have at least Rs 50000/- cash with you. 

In the event of an arrest and bail being denied by the lower court, file 3 applications for regular bail in the lower court, district court and the High Court 

Talk to people who have already undergone false 498a harrasment. 

You need to start treating your spouse like an enemy. Any weakness shown will cost your dearly.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You really wanna protect yourself from your wife then do this get (fake) affair with any other women use her to make your wife jealous as in the nature of one&#8217;s women feel jealous of other women.</p>
<p>1. Try to call all the relatives ask them if they know about where she is ,you must pretend you are loving and caring husband try to get good amount of witness like neighbors relatives.</p>
<p>2. Get yourself good advocate tell him about the condition dont fall completely for his/her advice just get some tips what to do and apply for anticipatory bail, Get it for all members of your family.. ( just in case your wife file 498a against you and your parents).</p>
<p>3. Make a solid proof you are not living with your wife and she left the home without telling anyone and didnt call you for 2 months.</p>
<p>3. Send her a notice when she comes back like please come back home soon where are you&#8230; ;like that</p>
<p>4. IF she comes back good for you but if she wont and file FIR against you under 498a and dowry do the following.</p>
<p>Start gathering evidences in the form of letters, photos, videos and witnesses.</p>
<p>If possible provide money to your wife via cheque , keep a copy of the cheque with you </p>
<p>Write registered letters to DGP of your state,Mahila Commision,etc. and keep a copy of them with you &#8211; this will save you from arbitary arrest</p>
<p>Apply for anticipatory bail. Get it for all members of your family. </p>
<p>This is a criminal case; get a criminal lawyer with a good reputation, not a divorce lawyer.</p>
<p>Talk to people around you , send email to tv channel like aajtak,ibnlive ,etc. </p>
<p>Have at least Rs 50000/- cash with you. </p>
<p>In the event of an arrest and bail being denied by the lower court, file 3 applications for regular bail in the lower court, district court and the High Court </p>
<p>Talk to people who have already undergone false 498a harrasment. </p>
<p>You need to start treating your spouse like an enemy. Any weakness shown will cost your dearly.</p>
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		<title>By: prathamesh</title>
		<link>http://aimwa.in/reality-check-on-domestic-violence#comment-315</link>
		<dc:creator>prathamesh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 May 2010 05:27:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>how to protect myself from wife :

she had left my house wihout my consent.
Since 2 months there is no communication
she created a scene before leaving ..by damaging herself and stating it as harm done by me.

what are the solutions and remedies ……..please suggest</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>how to protect myself from wife :</p>
<p>she had left my house wihout my consent.<br />
Since 2 months there is no communication<br />
she created a scene before leaving ..by damaging herself and stating it as harm done by me.</p>
<p>what are the solutions and remedies ……..please suggest</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Apr 2010 14:34:23 +0000</pubDate>
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