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		<title>By: Mohammad Ibrahim Gazi</title>
		<link>http://aimwa.in/fact-sheet-on-domestic-violence-against-men-in-india#comment-412</link>
		<dc:creator>Mohammad Ibrahim Gazi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Jul 2010 11:53:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>using the daughter as a tool to harass the man and extort him. Yet the Indian Government is doing nothing to protect men from rampant Domestic Violence.

Domestic violence against men, albeit a universal problem, is completely ignored by the society and the Government. 
There are no laws to protect men from any form of domestic abuse.
On the other hand, legal protections given to women have been designed to serve as weapons for legal harassment of men.
The reason for the growing apathy and hatred against men in the society is the spread of radical feminist thinking in every sphere of public life, including the drafting of policies and laws.

Help me, Help the Needy, God Help those who help others.

My father on discussion with my wife and my younger brother Rizwan took me to Psycatrist at Latur to Prove that I am Mad. But I told the Doctor that I was Forced and I respect the words of my father and I came here as a huming being to you but as a patient to my father.
I am ok. I recited the whole story to him. He too agreed to me and told my father that what he has not thought that thing happened to him from the source(Wife) which he haven&#039;t thought of it.

For the sake of Humanity Help me.
For the sake of God Help me.
From 2004 till this date I am badly torchered by her and her relatives.

My father doesn&#039;t love me from the age of 10.
I had been working in Mumbai at the age of 20yr as a Customer Support Engineer for Akruti Font at Aces technologies, Crawford Market, Mumbai.
I am sending my updated CV and my Photo (4 months back).
When the incident of beating happened with me. I went in Jamaat(Where we people used to remain in mosque, never goes out and pray 5 times prayer and do homework for the sake of benefit for all the creatures(18000) we perform duaa. I came from Jammat on 6.7.2010.
Now I am in beard.

Help me, Help Me, Help Me.
If they give me my money back or if they register my name in Registry, it&#039;s ok.
My main aim to open the fraud they did and to let them realize their mistakes in front of all the people so that they will not repeat such things in future.
Better you do Better you die.

I am ready for the punishment also if I am 1% wrong.
But I need this matter to be opened and let them feel their guity/crime they did in front of all others, so that they would be shameful for what they did.
But my observation is that they are very much cruel and greedy persons.
I don&#039;t have any documents as a proof that&#039;s why I didn&#039;t go to Court. I know that Court will ask. They have my all the documents (Bank Proof), Withdrawl amount of 40000 at 2004 from Osmanabad.
and Esaarpavti by her name first and my name later.(Original one).
I had given the original to her father in the year 2007 and he told that Instead of Original documents He will give me 50000/- Rs.
But he didn&#039;t.
When I and my wife went to see and inquire about the Plot I found that It has been registered or someone in the owner.
Since 2007 I am telling my wife to do registry or call me for the signature for the registry of Plot. But none paid any heed.
After a long quareel from 2004 onwards she gave the payment when i was not there(Preplanned) to my father, and there she signed the bond in Nov. 1st 2009. From that day onwards I am just asking her to show for what she signed. I didn&#039;t ask for the money for the plot (It&#039;s 3 lacs in today&#039;s date with registry), I asked for her to show what&#039;s written in the bond. she is refusing till this date.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>using the daughter as a tool to harass the man and extort him. Yet the Indian Government is doing nothing to protect men from rampant Domestic Violence.</p>
<p>Domestic violence against men, albeit a universal problem, is completely ignored by the society and the Government.<br />
There are no laws to protect men from any form of domestic abuse.<br />
On the other hand, legal protections given to women have been designed to serve as weapons for legal harassment of men.<br />
The reason for the growing apathy and hatred against men in the society is the spread of radical feminist thinking in every sphere of public life, including the drafting of policies and laws.</p>
<p>Help me, Help the Needy, God Help those who help others.</p>
<p>My father on discussion with my wife and my younger brother Rizwan took me to Psycatrist at Latur to Prove that I am Mad. But I told the Doctor that I was Forced and I respect the words of my father and I came here as a huming being to you but as a patient to my father.<br />
I am ok. I recited the whole story to him. He too agreed to me and told my father that what he has not thought that thing happened to him from the source(Wife) which he haven&#8217;t thought of it.</p>
<p>For the sake of Humanity Help me.<br />
For the sake of God Help me.<br />
From 2004 till this date I am badly torchered by her and her relatives.</p>
<p>My father doesn&#8217;t love me from the age of 10.<br />
I had been working in Mumbai at the age of 20yr as a Customer Support Engineer for Akruti Font at Aces technologies, Crawford Market, Mumbai.<br />
I am sending my updated CV and my Photo (4 months back).<br />
When the incident of beating happened with me. I went in Jamaat(Where we people used to remain in mosque, never goes out and pray 5 times prayer and do homework for the sake of benefit for all the creatures(18000) we perform duaa. I came from Jammat on 6.7.2010.<br />
Now I am in beard.</p>
<p>Help me, Help Me, Help Me.<br />
If they give me my money back or if they register my name in Registry, it&#8217;s ok.<br />
My main aim to open the fraud they did and to let them realize their mistakes in front of all the people so that they will not repeat such things in future.<br />
Better you do Better you die.</p>
<p>I am ready for the punishment also if I am 1% wrong.<br />
But I need this matter to be opened and let them feel their guity/crime they did in front of all others, so that they would be shameful for what they did.<br />
But my observation is that they are very much cruel and greedy persons.<br />
I don&#8217;t have any documents as a proof that&#8217;s why I didn&#8217;t go to Court. I know that Court will ask. They have my all the documents (Bank Proof), Withdrawl amount of 40000 at 2004 from Osmanabad.<br />
and Esaarpavti by her name first and my name later.(Original one).<br />
I had given the original to her father in the year 2007 and he told that Instead of Original documents He will give me 50000/- Rs.<br />
But he didn&#8217;t.<br />
When I and my wife went to see and inquire about the Plot I found that It has been registered or someone in the owner.<br />
Since 2007 I am telling my wife to do registry or call me for the signature for the registry of Plot. But none paid any heed.<br />
After a long quareel from 2004 onwards she gave the payment when i was not there(Preplanned) to my father, and there she signed the bond in Nov. 1st 2009. From that day onwards I am just asking her to show for what she signed. I didn&#8217;t ask for the money for the plot (It&#8217;s 3 lacs in today&#8217;s date with registry), I asked for her to show what&#8217;s written in the bond. she is refusing till this date.</p>
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		<title>By: Ashok`</title>
		<link>http://aimwa.in/fact-sheet-on-domestic-violence-against-men-in-india#comment-288</link>
		<dc:creator>Ashok`</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Apr 2010 16:45:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Shalini&#039;s parents Mr. &amp; Mrs. Sachchdanand Srivastava are the ultimate dalal type persons of their daughter Shalini Srivastava, who inspired Mrs. Shalini Srivastava a to become a loose charecter lady  and to earn more &amp; more money from selling her inner body parts to every male in her office.

Regards,

Ashok &amp; Shashi Sheker.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Shalini&#8217;s parents Mr. &amp; Mrs. Sachchdanand Srivastava are the ultimate dalal type persons of their daughter Shalini Srivastava, who inspired Mrs. Shalini Srivastava a to become a loose charecter lady  and to earn more &amp; more money from selling her inner body parts to every male in her office.</p>
<p>Regards,</p>
<p>Ashok &amp; Shashi Sheker.</p>
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		<title>By: Ashok`</title>
		<link>http://aimwa.in/fact-sheet-on-domestic-violence-against-men-in-india#comment-287</link>
		<dc:creator>Ashok`</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Apr 2010 16:41:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi,
Pankaj,

Shalini cannot be lived alone without as she is culprit lady, a person whose name is anand also emailed me and to my office about the dishonest nature of Shalini Srivastava a daughter of shameless &amp; selfish parents who are a dalla type peron of their daughters.

Ashok</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi,<br />
Pankaj,</p>
<p>Shalini cannot be lived alone without as she is culprit lady, a person whose name is anand also emailed me and to my office about the dishonest nature of Shalini Srivastava a daughter of shameless &amp; selfish parents who are a dalla type peron of their daughters.</p>
<p>Ashok</p>
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		<title>By: Pankaj</title>
		<link>http://aimwa.in/fact-sheet-on-domestic-violence-against-men-in-india#comment-254</link>
		<dc:creator>Pankaj</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Mar 2010 16:57:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Sir,

I am very sorry to disturb you to be unprofessional to discuss with you, but I need your help urgently as I am in big trouble. I see your news channel regularly and I like too much your news channel as all the Aaj Tak media professionals usually help all the Indian citizens. Please help me and guide me to solve my family issues as given below because it is a matter of life &amp; death, I am a sincere, hard-working &amp; honest Indian citizen &amp; employee of HCL. I hope from the media that Media will help me to solve my very serious &amp; tragic family problems which I &amp; my family was unable to solve it by my own. Please help me to solve my family issues as a media professionals which I have described in the email to Mr. Vinay k. Singh / Mr. Vinod Kumar (Top Executives of M/s Thomson Digital, NSEZ Noida) as shown below. I need your help as my life and career is in danger, please save my life &amp; career. Please suggest or guide me how can I solve my family issues and what type of legal actions should I take. I am a husband of Mrs. Shalini Srivastava (Emp. ID: 57196), Group Leader C.E employed at Thomson Digital, NEPZ, Noida. I am very sorry to disturb you to be unprofessional to discuss with you, but the problem is very serious &amp; tragic and it is a matter of life &amp; death for me. I request you please help me to resolve my family issue as my family came to the end. Please save my life and career as my life is in danger due to verbal threatening of my wife in phone. I have 4 year old child (whose life also is in danger with my wife) residing with my wife at her parents’s home, it is the matter of the future of my child as Shalini is spoiling the future of my child due to her arrogant, selfish, shameless &amp; dishonest nature. Some peoples of Shalini’s office said to me that Shalini is a loose character lady who wants to spoil her husband’s career and life, she is making relations from any other persons, she also gave some threatening calls to me from another person. Previously, I called to her manager Mr. Ashok regarding my family issue, he was also unable to make her understand and said to me that shalini is an arrogant or may be a loose character lady, I can’t do anything against her, she will spoil my career as well as my life, so it is better to leave shalini alone to go her into the hell. But my believes (or Trust) on my wife Shalini is that there is a problem of clashing of ego’s only not any else that shalini couldn’t able to understand how can the clashing of ego’s be avoided and how can a couple may live peaceful professional &amp; lovable life with the satisfaction of husband, parents and other relatives. Sir, please guide me what will I do when my wife Shalini and a daughter-in-law of highly educated person Prof.(Dr.) D. S. Srivastava, HOD-A.M.U, &amp; former Vice President of B.A.R.C (who is now retired and also working with an private University as Dean of Faculty and serve his life alone &amp; independently without disturbing others), has run away from house due to her illegal approach and arrogance and she is spoiling my family life. Several times I have tried to make her understand that husband and wife are the two wheels of a motor bike, we should cooperate with each other with love, affection &amp; trust always, life alone with spouse will become hell. I can’t live without my wife as I am a mother deprived person because I love my wife Shalini too much &amp; I am alone in life, I am too possessive towards my wife Shalini because I love my wife Shalini too much, as I am purchasing a flat in Noida for my wife &amp; children, I have also purchased a Santro Car for my wife &amp; children, but only one thing that I want from my wife that she should understand my lovable feelings and sentiments, she must realize/believe in the concept that independent family life is a very good life with love, affection &amp; trust between husband &amp; wife without any dependency of any other persons (say parents, relatives etc,) so that we could able to avoid clashing of ego’s problems in the family life from others because clashing of ego problems will destroy every things, career, life etc., all the things will destroy due to clashing of ego’s, so it is necessary for my wife shalini that she should be able to understand that life, career, love-affection &amp; trust between husband &amp; wife and self ego are the very important things to every persons, hence she should avoid the clashing of ego’s between person to person and she should be able to understand how to become a well understanding wife by spreading love, affection &amp; trust towards husband. Shalini should be honest in her approach because honesty is the basic thing of life and career. Shalini is not honest she always tell lie about everybody and I always said truth with my honesty which my Shalini get so arrogant when she heard my speaks:-
Actually, there are following issues in our family which I am explaining briefly and I and I am also enclosing my article (which I gave to my wife Shalini to make her understand the concepts of married life) in a mail enclosed in attachment :
1)	Child Issue:-   As we both husband – wife are working, my time schedule is 8:30 AM to 9:00 PM, and my wife Shalini’s time schedule is 7:30 AM to 6 :00 PM to reach at home at Noida. My child is 4 year old, I have suggested that there is only solution to resolve the issue is the day boarding system to our child, that is, in the morning shift, I will take care to my child and leave the child to the school while in the evening shift, my wife Shalini will take care to our child  from the day boarding, after her office timings. If anything I couldn’t able to do, I will learn very soon to do the work in a correct way. We should live the life independently with love, affection &amp; trust with each other with fully devoted to each other and take care to our child sincerely &amp; honestly. But my wife puts lots of allegations on me I am not responsible, and was put lots of absurd allegations to my family say my father, &amp; my elder brother (who is working in Dubai as a Associate General Manger). she said that only her mother can take care to our child in her absence and nobody else. The problem is that shalini’s mother is always criticizing to me and my family due to the ego &amp; jealousy problem as the level of my family is much higher than her family and her father is an hand-packed person, say shalini’s parents are too much dominating, selfish &amp; shameless in nature. To avoid such issues, to live peaceful life, I gave some basic principle of married life &amp; I also got approval from the marriage councilors regarding my article ‘Basic concept to maintain Life’,  and I said to her that independent life is a very good life, Shalini should be honest in her approach, we can help her parents in their needs but we should not get help from shalini’s parents so that they could not get any reason to dominate on anybody to destroy the self ego of a person as they were always created issues &amp; disturbances in our family life. Initially when my child was born, my father gave Rs. 2000/- pm to the shalini’s parents to take care to my child for one year, on their demand. Now, I am requesting them to keep my wife &amp; child alone, they are not leaving my wife &amp; child alone with me and always put criticism &amp; allegations, sometimes on me and some time on my father due to jealousy &amp; negative energy. They spoiling my family life as well as my career by emotional blackmailing to my wife Shalini by putting my child in an arrow due to their shameless &amp; selfish approach. Shalini’s parents always being in touch with my wife Shalini by taking child issue and always making disturbances by creating issues, absurd &amp; shameless allegations in our family life. Shalini’s parents are lower category parents having jealous type of feelings in their minds.
2)	Relationship issue:- She did not want to adopt / mixing up in the relations other than her parental side, she said to me that all the relations from my side are selfish in nature, but the facts is that relations from my side are always being sincere, hardworking and an educated &amp; professional persons as my father is an highly educated person Prof.(Dr.) D. S. Srivastava, HOD, &amp; former Vice President of B.A.R.C (who is now retired and also working with an private University as Dean of Faculty and serve his life alone &amp; independently without disturbing others) and my brother is a Civil engineer working in Dubai in an MNC as AGM (Civil), previously he was working in Delhi Metro Projects., they all were tried to taught her that she should be honest in her approach, she should not be so arrogant, and she has to learn the concepts of life, but all our efforts were become worth as she couldn’t able to understand the true facts, and wants to spoil my life and career. Shalini’s parents always being in touch with my wife Shalini by taking child issue and always making disturbances by creating various dominating shameless issues, absurd &amp; shameless allegations in our family life. 
3)	Financial Issue:-  She always puts allegations on me that I always think about money-money but I have planned to be well settled and established in Noida with our own efforts honestly without any dependency of any other person as I am very egoistic person, by purchasing a flat in a good location in Noida and I am always think to be well furnished with a good Luxurious level in life. So in order to achieve that much level in life, I always taught my wife to be honest, professionally sincere &amp; well understanding to live as a independent professional married wife with proper love, affection and trust with each other in order to provide a honest satisfaction to each other to be well devoted on each other. But she refused to manage the married life in such a way without involving her parents into our married life. So, my father (after understanding the arrogant, selfish, dominating and shameless nature of my wife Shalini and her parents) has designed a feasible financial system to run our family in a minimum compatible manner with such an arrogant and dishonest wife &amp; daughter-in-law Shalini is that we both husband &amp; wife should prepare the approximate budget of the family (say 20000/- or 30000/- or whatever it will be) per month including all the expenses of husband, wife and of child etc, and divide the family budget in two parts and then deposited these amount from our salary accounts in one joint account in order to serve the family with love, affection and trust. But shalini’s parents always be in touch all the times and put the allegations on me that I and my parental side are most selfish who are always think about money-money as Shalini’s parents always being in touch with my wife Shalini by taking money issue and always making disturbances by creating various dominating shameless issues, absurd &amp; shameless allegations in our family life. Only Gods knows that all the allegations are wrong which Shalini and her shameless &amp; selfish parents puts on me. My wife shalini at last has broken such financial system of our family in the middle in the impression of her selfish &amp; shameless parents by involving her parents into our family.   

Please solve my family issues at the earliest by taking necessary actions for my wife Shalini to make her understand the basic principle of married life as it is the matter of life &amp; death so that she could able to remove all the confusions in her mind and follow sincerely the Basic principles of married life, and lead the life professionally &amp; as a sincere wife. and if you want to consult with my wife, her father, or my father, so, the cell nos. of my wife Shalini is 9810958446, cell no. of her father is- 9818211363, &amp; the cell of my father – Prof.(Dr.) D.S.Srivastava is 09358251572, 0571-3293441.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Sir,</p>
<p>I am very sorry to disturb you to be unprofessional to discuss with you, but I need your help urgently as I am in big trouble. I see your news channel regularly and I like too much your news channel as all the Aaj Tak media professionals usually help all the Indian citizens. Please help me and guide me to solve my family issues as given below because it is a matter of life &amp; death, I am a sincere, hard-working &amp; honest Indian citizen &amp; employee of HCL. I hope from the media that Media will help me to solve my very serious &amp; tragic family problems which I &amp; my family was unable to solve it by my own. Please help me to solve my family issues as a media professionals which I have described in the email to Mr. Vinay k. Singh / Mr. Vinod Kumar (Top Executives of M/s Thomson Digital, NSEZ Noida) as shown below. I need your help as my life and career is in danger, please save my life &amp; career. Please suggest or guide me how can I solve my family issues and what type of legal actions should I take. I am a husband of Mrs. Shalini Srivastava (Emp. ID: 57196), Group Leader C.E employed at Thomson Digital, NEPZ, Noida. I am very sorry to disturb you to be unprofessional to discuss with you, but the problem is very serious &amp; tragic and it is a matter of life &amp; death for me. I request you please help me to resolve my family issue as my family came to the end. Please save my life and career as my life is in danger due to verbal threatening of my wife in phone. I have 4 year old child (whose life also is in danger with my wife) residing with my wife at her parents’s home, it is the matter of the future of my child as Shalini is spoiling the future of my child due to her arrogant, selfish, shameless &amp; dishonest nature. Some peoples of Shalini’s office said to me that Shalini is a loose character lady who wants to spoil her husband’s career and life, she is making relations from any other persons, she also gave some threatening calls to me from another person. Previously, I called to her manager Mr. Ashok regarding my family issue, he was also unable to make her understand and said to me that shalini is an arrogant or may be a loose character lady, I can’t do anything against her, she will spoil my career as well as my life, so it is better to leave shalini alone to go her into the hell. But my believes (or Trust) on my wife Shalini is that there is a problem of clashing of ego’s only not any else that shalini couldn’t able to understand how can the clashing of ego’s be avoided and how can a couple may live peaceful professional &amp; lovable life with the satisfaction of husband, parents and other relatives. Sir, please guide me what will I do when my wife Shalini and a daughter-in-law of highly educated person Prof.(Dr.) D. S. Srivastava, HOD-A.M.U, &amp; former Vice President of B.A.R.C (who is now retired and also working with an private University as Dean of Faculty and serve his life alone &amp; independently without disturbing others), has run away from house due to her illegal approach and arrogance and she is spoiling my family life. Several times I have tried to make her understand that husband and wife are the two wheels of a motor bike, we should cooperate with each other with love, affection &amp; trust always, life alone with spouse will become hell. I can’t live without my wife as I am a mother deprived person because I love my wife Shalini too much &amp; I am alone in life, I am too possessive towards my wife Shalini because I love my wife Shalini too much, as I am purchasing a flat in Noida for my wife &amp; children, I have also purchased a Santro Car for my wife &amp; children, but only one thing that I want from my wife that she should understand my lovable feelings and sentiments, she must realize/believe in the concept that independent family life is a very good life with love, affection &amp; trust between husband &amp; wife without any dependency of any other persons (say parents, relatives etc,) so that we could able to avoid clashing of ego’s problems in the family life from others because clashing of ego problems will destroy every things, career, life etc., all the things will destroy due to clashing of ego’s, so it is necessary for my wife shalini that she should be able to understand that life, career, love-affection &amp; trust between husband &amp; wife and self ego are the very important things to every persons, hence she should avoid the clashing of ego’s between person to person and she should be able to understand how to become a well understanding wife by spreading love, affection &amp; trust towards husband. Shalini should be honest in her approach because honesty is the basic thing of life and career. Shalini is not honest she always tell lie about everybody and I always said truth with my honesty which my Shalini get so arrogant when she heard my speaks:-<br />
Actually, there are following issues in our family which I am explaining briefly and I and I am also enclosing my article (which I gave to my wife Shalini to make her understand the concepts of married life) in a mail enclosed in attachment :<br />
1)	Child Issue:-   As we both husband – wife are working, my time schedule is 8:30 AM to 9:00 PM, and my wife Shalini’s time schedule is 7:30 AM to 6 :00 PM to reach at home at Noida. My child is 4 year old, I have suggested that there is only solution to resolve the issue is the day boarding system to our child, that is, in the morning shift, I will take care to my child and leave the child to the school while in the evening shift, my wife Shalini will take care to our child  from the day boarding, after her office timings. If anything I couldn’t able to do, I will learn very soon to do the work in a correct way. We should live the life independently with love, affection &amp; trust with each other with fully devoted to each other and take care to our child sincerely &amp; honestly. But my wife puts lots of allegations on me I am not responsible, and was put lots of absurd allegations to my family say my father, &amp; my elder brother (who is working in Dubai as a Associate General Manger). she said that only her mother can take care to our child in her absence and nobody else. The problem is that shalini’s mother is always criticizing to me and my family due to the ego &amp; jealousy problem as the level of my family is much higher than her family and her father is an hand-packed person, say shalini’s parents are too much dominating, selfish &amp; shameless in nature. To avoid such issues, to live peaceful life, I gave some basic principle of married life &amp; I also got approval from the marriage councilors regarding my article ‘Basic concept to maintain Life’,  and I said to her that independent life is a very good life, Shalini should be honest in her approach, we can help her parents in their needs but we should not get help from shalini’s parents so that they could not get any reason to dominate on anybody to destroy the self ego of a person as they were always created issues &amp; disturbances in our family life. Initially when my child was born, my father gave Rs. 2000/- pm to the shalini’s parents to take care to my child for one year, on their demand. Now, I am requesting them to keep my wife &amp; child alone, they are not leaving my wife &amp; child alone with me and always put criticism &amp; allegations, sometimes on me and some time on my father due to jealousy &amp; negative energy. They spoiling my family life as well as my career by emotional blackmailing to my wife Shalini by putting my child in an arrow due to their shameless &amp; selfish approach. Shalini’s parents always being in touch with my wife Shalini by taking child issue and always making disturbances by creating issues, absurd &amp; shameless allegations in our family life. Shalini’s parents are lower category parents having jealous type of feelings in their minds.<br />
2)	Relationship issue:- She did not want to adopt / mixing up in the relations other than her parental side, she said to me that all the relations from my side are selfish in nature, but the facts is that relations from my side are always being sincere, hardworking and an educated &amp; professional persons as my father is an highly educated person Prof.(Dr.) D. S. Srivastava, HOD, &amp; former Vice President of B.A.R.C (who is now retired and also working with an private University as Dean of Faculty and serve his life alone &amp; independently without disturbing others) and my brother is a Civil engineer working in Dubai in an MNC as AGM (Civil), previously he was working in Delhi Metro Projects., they all were tried to taught her that she should be honest in her approach, she should not be so arrogant, and she has to learn the concepts of life, but all our efforts were become worth as she couldn’t able to understand the true facts, and wants to spoil my life and career. Shalini’s parents always being in touch with my wife Shalini by taking child issue and always making disturbances by creating various dominating shameless issues, absurd &amp; shameless allegations in our family life.<br />
3)	Financial Issue:-  She always puts allegations on me that I always think about money-money but I have planned to be well settled and established in Noida with our own efforts honestly without any dependency of any other person as I am very egoistic person, by purchasing a flat in a good location in Noida and I am always think to be well furnished with a good Luxurious level in life. So in order to achieve that much level in life, I always taught my wife to be honest, professionally sincere &amp; well understanding to live as a independent professional married wife with proper love, affection and trust with each other in order to provide a honest satisfaction to each other to be well devoted on each other. But she refused to manage the married life in such a way without involving her parents into our married life. So, my father (after understanding the arrogant, selfish, dominating and shameless nature of my wife Shalini and her parents) has designed a feasible financial system to run our family in a minimum compatible manner with such an arrogant and dishonest wife &amp; daughter-in-law Shalini is that we both husband &amp; wife should prepare the approximate budget of the family (say 20000/- or 30000/- or whatever it will be) per month including all the expenses of husband, wife and of child etc, and divide the family budget in two parts and then deposited these amount from our salary accounts in one joint account in order to serve the family with love, affection and trust. But shalini’s parents always be in touch all the times and put the allegations on me that I and my parental side are most selfish who are always think about money-money as Shalini’s parents always being in touch with my wife Shalini by taking money issue and always making disturbances by creating various dominating shameless issues, absurd &amp; shameless allegations in our family life. Only Gods knows that all the allegations are wrong which Shalini and her shameless &amp; selfish parents puts on me. My wife shalini at last has broken such financial system of our family in the middle in the impression of her selfish &amp; shameless parents by involving her parents into our family.   </p>
<p>Please solve my family issues at the earliest by taking necessary actions for my wife Shalini to make her understand the basic principle of married life as it is the matter of life &amp; death so that she could able to remove all the confusions in her mind and follow sincerely the Basic principles of married life, and lead the life professionally &amp; as a sincere wife. and if you want to consult with my wife, her father, or my father, so, the cell nos. of my wife Shalini is 9810958446, cell no. of her father is- 9818211363, &amp; the cell of my father – Prof.(Dr.) D.S.Srivastava is 09358251572, 0571-3293441.</p>
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