Comments on: Fact sheet on domestic violence against men in India http://aimwa.in/fact-sheet-on-domestic-violence-against-men-in-india?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=fact-sheet-on-domestic-violence-against-men-in-india .. for the sake of boys and men! Thu, 17 May 2012 11:15:54 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3 By: Ganapathy Raman http://aimwa.in/fact-sheet-on-domestic-violence-against-men-in-india#comment-2169 Ganapathy Raman Mon, 14 May 2012 00:06:29 +0000 http://aimwa.in/?p=60#comment-2169 Dear Sirs, Please note that CALLING WIVES NAME IS ONE VIOLENCE ACT COMES UNDER D V ACT 2005 : UNDER SECTION 3 OF D V ACT 2005 AS FOLLOWS : 3. Definition of domestic violence.-For the purposes of this Act, any act, omission or commission or conduct of the respondent shall constitute domestic violence in case it - (a) { harms or injures or endangers the health, safety, life, limb or well-being, whether mental or physical, of the aggrieved person or tends to do so and includes causing physical abuse, sexual abuse, ] verbal and emotional abuse and economic abuse; (iii) "verbal and emotional abuse" includes- (a) insults, ridicule, humiliation, name calling and insults or ridicule specially with regard to not having a child or a male child; and (b) repeated threats to cause physical pain to any person in whom the aggrieved person is interested. HERE NAME CALLING THE WIVES BY THEIR HUSBAND OR OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS & RELATIVES OF HUSBANDS ARE CONSIDERED AS DOMESTIC VIOLENCE . MAIN POINTS : EVEN OWN HUSBANDS ARE CALLING THEIR WIVES ARE CONSIDERED AS THE SEVERE & SERIOUS DOMESTIC VIOLENCE THEN : 1. The Petitioners (Wives) Parents are calling them with their names, The petitioners brothers/sisters and other relatives are calling them with their names 2. The Petitioners Friends are calling them with their Names 3. If the Petitioners are working then their Colleagues are Calling them with their Names, Their Officers, Managers and Zonal Managers, Regional Managers and Directors are all calling then with their Their Names 4. The Petitioners filing Complaints to the Police Stations where Polices, Sub Inspectors, Inspectors are calling them with their names 4. Finally The Petitioners are filing Petitions in the Family Courts and there for every Hearing Dates Their Court Clerks are Calling them with Their Names on every occasions and sometime 3 times They Used call even without Ms. or Mrs. ***ONCE A MARRIED HUSBANDS WHO ARE THE FAMILY PARTNERS ARE ALSO RESTRICTED TO CALL THEIR WIVES WITH NAME CALLING AND PUNISHABLE UNDER SECTION 3 OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ACT 2005 THEN DEFINITELY THE ABOVE SAID ALL FOUR CATEGORY PEOPLE ARE ALSO INVOLVING THE SAME AND AFTER ALL SOME OF THEM ARE OUTSIDERS AND NOTHING CONCERNED WITH THE RESPECTIVE WIVES**** So the above said Category People are liable to questionable or punishable under Domestic violence Act Under Section 3 . Please confirm with Our Prime Minister, Union Law Minister, Women Welfare Minister, AICC President, BJP President, The President of Communist Party, and all other Political Party Presidents , and All Members of Parliament who voted for this D V Act 2005 . The Law Should be EQUAL TO ALL and there should not be ANY PARTIALITY and so WHAT IS THE CLARIFICATION FOR THIS PARTIALITY? Let Them Explain. Let Us Consider and Assume Domestic Violence Act is Legal for Arguments Sake but also the above said categories should not call the WIVES by NAME CALLING and they should also questionable and Punishable since The Wives Own Husbands & Relatives are already Restricted by D V Act 2005. Mahakavi Bharathiyar says ; PEIYGAL AACHI SEITHAL !!! PINAM THINNUM SASTHRANGAL and it means : "IF GHOSTS or DEVILS ARE RULING ONE COUNTRY THEN THEY WOULD TRY TO EAT HUMANITY AND LAWS" Dear Sirs,
Please note that CALLING WIVES NAME IS ONE VIOLENCE ACT COMES UNDER
D V ACT 2005 : UNDER SECTION 3 OF D V ACT 2005 AS FOLLOWS :
3. Definition of domestic violence.-For the purposes of this Act, any act, omission or
commission or conduct of the respondent shall constitute domestic violence in case it -

(a) { harms or injures or endangers the health, safety, life, limb or well-being, whether mental or physical, of the aggrieved person or tends to do so and includes causing physical abuse, sexual abuse, ]
verbal and emotional abuse and economic abuse;
(iii) “verbal and emotional abuse” includes-
(a) insults, ridicule, humiliation, name calling and insults or ridicule specially with regard to not having a child or a male child; and
(b) repeated threats to cause physical pain to any person in whom the aggrieved person is interested.

HERE NAME CALLING THE WIVES BY THEIR HUSBAND OR OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS & RELATIVES OF HUSBANDS ARE CONSIDERED AS DOMESTIC VIOLENCE .

MAIN POINTS : EVEN OWN HUSBANDS ARE CALLING THEIR WIVES ARE CONSIDERED AS THE SEVERE & SERIOUS DOMESTIC VIOLENCE THEN :
1. The Petitioners (Wives) Parents are calling them with their names, The petitioners brothers/sisters and other relatives are calling them with their names
2. The Petitioners Friends are calling them with their Names
3. If the Petitioners are working then their Colleagues are Calling them with their Names, Their Officers, Managers and Zonal Managers, Regional Managers and Directors are all calling then with their Their Names
4. The Petitioners filing Complaints to the Police Stations where Polices, Sub Inspectors, Inspectors are calling them with their names
4. Finally The Petitioners are filing Petitions in the Family Courts and there for every Hearing Dates Their Court Clerks are Calling them with Their Names on every occasions and sometime 3 times They Used call even without Ms. or Mrs.
***ONCE A MARRIED HUSBANDS WHO ARE THE FAMILY PARTNERS ARE ALSO RESTRICTED TO CALL THEIR WIVES WITH NAME CALLING AND PUNISHABLE UNDER SECTION 3 OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ACT 2005 THEN DEFINITELY THE ABOVE SAID ALL FOUR CATEGORY PEOPLE ARE ALSO INVOLVING THE SAME AND AFTER ALL SOME OF THEM ARE OUTSIDERS AND NOTHING CONCERNED WITH THE RESPECTIVE WIVES****
So the above said Category People are liable to questionable or punishable under Domestic violence Act Under Section 3 .
Please confirm with Our Prime Minister, Union Law Minister, Women Welfare Minister, AICC President, BJP President, The President of Communist Party, and all other Political Party Presidents , and All Members of Parliament who voted for this D V Act 2005 .
The Law Should be EQUAL TO ALL and there should not be ANY PARTIALITY and so
WHAT IS THE CLARIFICATION FOR THIS PARTIALITY? Let Them Explain.
Let Us Consider and Assume Domestic Violence Act is Legal for Arguments Sake but also the above said categories should not call the WIVES by NAME CALLING and they should also questionable and Punishable since The Wives Own Husbands & Relatives are already Restricted by D V Act 2005.
Mahakavi Bharathiyar says ; PEIYGAL AACHI SEITHAL !!!
PINAM THINNUM SASTHRANGAL
and it means : “IF GHOSTS or DEVILS ARE RULING ONE COUNTRY THEN
THEY WOULD TRY TO EAT HUMANITY AND LAWS”

]]> By: vizzini http://aimwa.in/fact-sheet-on-domestic-violence-against-men-in-india#comment-2039 vizzini Tue, 03 Apr 2012 14:56:26 +0000 http://aimwa.in/?p=60#comment-2039 This is one heck of a fake article. I mean seriously, what kind of men are you? First of all, society subjugates women to an extent where they have no identity anymore, and then there's this stupid article of violence against men? I have seen women who have been oppressed by men in India. Indian men in most cases think that they have a right to oppress because they are the 'stronger sex'. I agree that in some cases women do make it difficult for men as well, but figures and common sense prove that women are the bigger sufferers when it comes to domestic abuse. This is completely hogwash. There's no truth in it. And more men commit suicide because they are emotionally weaker than women. A woman would think a thousand times before she does something rash like that - regardless of how hellish her life is. Male chauvinism is a very very annoying thing. This is one heck of a fake article. I mean seriously, what kind of men are you? First of all, society subjugates women to an extent where they have no identity anymore, and then there’s this stupid article of violence against men? I have seen women who have been oppressed by men in India. Indian men in most cases think that they have a right to oppress because they are the ‘stronger sex’.

I agree that in some cases women do make it difficult for men as well, but figures and common sense prove that women are the bigger sufferers when it comes to domestic abuse. This is completely hogwash. There’s no truth in it.

And more men commit suicide because they are emotionally weaker than women. A woman would think a thousand times before she does something rash like that – regardless of how hellish her life is.

Male chauvinism is a very very annoying thing.

]]> By: Arvind Aiyar http://aimwa.in/fact-sheet-on-domestic-violence-against-men-in-india#comment-1082 Arvind Aiyar Fri, 15 Apr 2011 06:11:31 +0000 http://aimwa.in/?p=60#comment-1082 Women are equally good and evil as men. We Indians, especially Hindus, deserve a BIG BLAME for constantly saying, ‘WE WORSHIP WOMEN! WE WORSHIP WOMEN!’. WHY? Yes, by all means, respect your mother. Respect your wife, respect your kids and elders. BUT GET RID OF THIS STUPID IDEA OF WORSHIPPING WOMEN. Women can commit every single crime a man can. Moreover, it is psychologically proven that women don’t entirely understand the concept of justice and fairplay in the sense, men practice it. This has to do with the evolution of different genders over thousands of years. It also has to do with the way boys learn to play games and fights … and understand that winning or losing is a one time event. It is not worth holding a grudge against the winner or the loser. In fact, a friend today can fall out and become a foe. Also, an opponent today can become the best friend tomorrow! It is not necessarily the mindset that women possess. There is great truth to the fickle nature of women. So, why then are we crazily singing ‘WE WORSHIP WOMEN! WE WORSHIP WOMEN!’. SHE IS OUT TO MAKE LIFE MISERABLE FOR YOU, AND YOU STILL WORSHIP HER? HOW STUPID OF YOU! BREAK THIS HABIT. AND EDUCATE YOUR FRIENDS ALSO. Women are equally good and evil as men.
We Indians, especially Hindus, deserve a BIG BLAME for constantly saying,
‘WE WORSHIP WOMEN! WE WORSHIP WOMEN!’.
WHY? Yes, by all means, respect your mother.
Respect your wife, respect your kids and elders.
BUT GET RID OF THIS STUPID IDEA OF WORSHIPPING WOMEN.

Women can commit every single crime a man can.
Moreover, it is psychologically proven that women don’t entirely understand
the concept of justice and fairplay in the sense, men practice it.
This has to do with the evolution of different genders over thousands of years.
It also has to do with the way boys learn to play games and fights …
and understand that winning or losing is a one time event.
It is not worth holding a grudge against the winner or the loser.
In fact, a friend today can fall out and become a foe.
Also, an opponent today can become the best friend tomorrow!
It is not necessarily the mindset that women possess.

There is great truth to the fickle nature of women.
So, why then are we crazily singing ‘WE WORSHIP WOMEN! WE WORSHIP WOMEN!’.
SHE IS OUT TO MAKE LIFE MISERABLE FOR YOU,
AND YOU STILL WORSHIP HER?
HOW STUPID OF YOU! BREAK THIS HABIT. AND EDUCATE YOUR FRIENDS ALSO.

]]> By: ravindra darak http://aimwa.in/fact-sheet-on-domestic-violence-against-men-in-india#comment-880 ravindra darak Mon, 28 Feb 2011 13:00:26 +0000 http://aimwa.in/?p=60#comment-880 govt deside & show the family membar rights & duity as per pati patni [husband & wife] mothar fathar son doughtar son in low doughtar in low as base custam in indian religance for family relif family membars requriment in indian base young jents & ledy acept wedding life both are family requriment expection . this sistam in runnig culcture right or rong disade by govt. govt deside & show the family membar rights & duity as per pati patni [husband & wife] mothar fathar son doughtar son in low doughtar in low as base custam in indian religance for family relif family membars requriment
in indian base young jents & ledy acept wedding life both are family requriment expection . this sistam in runnig culcture right or rong disade by govt.

]]> By: rajendra chavan http://aimwa.in/fact-sheet-on-domestic-violence-against-men-in-india#comment-723 rajendra chavan Tue, 14 Dec 2010 08:17:59 +0000 http://aimwa.in/?p=60#comment-723 respected sir i am rajendra i read in newspaper and search on internet i read and i trust you now sir i want to say you something as elder brother in my family there only 4 people (my english is not so correct so please try en understand please) my mother is working in state government on good position she really sacrifices whole life for me she does'nt have without me she's age is now 57 actually she worked from age of (her) 7 so that she is too tired. she hope that if she married his son (me rajendra) in her relationship then she never get any problem's that why my mother arranged a marriage in her relationship but when we are come in nasik for service and something earning (my wife forcefully recommend that we (me my son and my wife) have to go to nasik) my mother has some yr service is left so that why she is not come with us. but when my mother come to our home my wife behavior was suddenly change with her and with family she does't accepts that my mother have to come in my family my mother me so many times observe that she is try to insult my mother and so many time she did it but my mother emotionally leave it cause she love with my son (natu vir). but in last three years there is so many things is happend in my life : 1st my wife want to get service as teacher in any school but we dont have a lot of money like 12-13 lacks which they required. 2nd things my mother have some property a basic house it has cost approx 12-13 lacks which she required for service oriented all these things she (my wife) warned me that she will suicide with my child and pre planningly arrest to you and your mother else i will mix a poison in meal it means all problems was solve but your mother will go arrested (all situation are related with my mother cause she have retirement at 2012 and she gets so much amount which my wife required ) but sir my wife has no such brain how to black mail her husband i think my wife's parents is involve in all these things when i said to her that i will slam to you, then she was told me "if you are true male slam to me and then i will teach you a lesson which you never never forget in your whole life i know the rule " so your can understand if one slam should be a cause of lesson i never hit a slam in last six years i never abuse to her parents but she always abuse to my mother in front of my mother when last time my mother came to my house she rises her voices and she abuse to my mother and said that you never have to come when i go with my mother my mother says this should be are last meeting it should possible i will be no more but she say me that be take care of vir sir my mother is in very critical mental stage i love my mother toooo much but i cant do with her due to my wife behavior from the last three months my wife never ask me about my mother even about her health my wife things that she is right side please send me a legal right of my mother and how to save my mother my son and myself from my wife and her parents send me a legal help on naavaahaacaaaaradanaeajar2011@gmail.com your rajendra chavan respected sir
i am rajendra i read in newspaper and search on internet i read and i trust you now
sir i want to say you something as elder brother
in my family there only 4 people (my english is not so correct so please try en understand please)
my mother is working in state government on good position she really sacrifices whole life for me
she does’nt have without me she’s age is now 57 actually she worked from age of (her) 7 so that she
is too tired. she hope that if she married his son (me rajendra) in her relationship then she never get any problem’s that why my mother arranged a marriage in her relationship but when we are come in nasik for service and something earning (my wife forcefully recommend that we (me my son and my wife) have to go to nasik) my mother has some yr service is left so that why she is not come with us.
but when my mother come to our home my wife behavior was suddenly change with her and with family she does’t accepts that my mother have to come in my family my mother me so many times observe that she is try to insult my mother and so many time she did it but my mother emotionally leave it cause she love with my son (natu vir). but in last three years there is so many things is happend in my life : 1st my wife want to get service as teacher in any school but we dont have a lot of money like 12-13 lacks which they required. 2nd things my mother have some property a basic house it has cost approx 12-13 lacks which she required for service oriented all these things she (my wife) warned me that she will suicide with my child and pre planningly arrest to you and your mother else i will mix a poison in meal it means all problems was solve but your mother will go arrested (all situation are related with my mother cause she have retirement at 2012 and she gets so much amount which my wife required ) but sir my wife has no such brain how to black mail her husband i think my wife’s parents is involve in all these things
when i said to her that i will slam to you, then she was told me “if you are true male slam to me and then i will teach you a lesson which you never never forget in your whole life i know the rule ” so your can understand if one slam should be a cause of lesson i never hit a slam in last six years i never abuse to her parents but she always abuse to my mother in front of my mother when last time my mother came to my house she rises her voices and she abuse to my mother and said that you never have to come when i go with my mother my mother says this should be are last meeting it should possible i will be no more but she say me that be take care of vir sir my mother is in very critical mental stage i love my mother toooo much but i cant do with her due to my wife behavior from the last three months my wife never ask me about my mother even about her health my wife things that she is right side
please send me a legal right of my mother and how to save my mother my son and myself from my wife and her parents
send me a legal help on naavaahaacaaaaradanaeajar2011@gmail.com
your rajendra chavan

]]> By: Pankaj Srivastava http://aimwa.in/fact-sheet-on-domestic-violence-against-men-in-india#comment-631 Pankaj Srivastava Tue, 16 Nov 2010 16:09:30 +0000 http://aimwa.in/?p=60#comment-631 Dear Sir, Please remove my article from the website as soon as possible, Thanks, Pankaj Srivastava Dear Sir,

Please remove my article from the website as soon as possible,

Thanks,

Pankaj Srivastava

]]> By: mistry http://aimwa.in/fact-sheet-on-domestic-violence-against-men-in-india#comment-516 mistry Wed, 08 Sep 2010 11:09:33 +0000 http://aimwa.in/?p=60#comment-516 please let us know about the anti violence movement favouring man in gujrat ahmedabad please let us know the contact number through e mail please let us know about the anti violence movement favouring man in gujrat ahmedabad
please let us know the contact number through e mail

]]> By: mistry http://aimwa.in/fact-sheet-on-domestic-violence-against-men-in-india#comment-515 mistry Wed, 08 Sep 2010 11:08:51 +0000 http://aimwa.in/?p=60#comment-515 please let us know about the anti violence movement favouring man in gujrat ahmedabad please let us know about the anti violence movement favouring man in gujrat ahmedabad

]]> By: Mohammad Ibrahim Gazi http://aimwa.in/fact-sheet-on-domestic-violence-against-men-in-india#comment-412 Mohammad Ibrahim Gazi Wed, 14 Jul 2010 11:53:58 +0000 http://aimwa.in/?p=60#comment-412 using the daughter as a tool to harass the man and extort him. Yet the Indian Government is doing nothing to protect men from rampant Domestic Violence. Domestic violence against men, albeit a universal problem, is completely ignored by the society and the Government. There are no laws to protect men from any form of domestic abuse. On the other hand, legal protections given to women have been designed to serve as weapons for legal harassment of men. The reason for the growing apathy and hatred against men in the society is the spread of radical feminist thinking in every sphere of public life, including the drafting of policies and laws. Help me, Help the Needy, God Help those who help others. My father on discussion with my wife and my younger brother Rizwan took me to Psycatrist at Latur to Prove that I am Mad. But I told the Doctor that I was Forced and I respect the words of my father and I came here as a huming being to you but as a patient to my father. I am ok. I recited the whole story to him. He too agreed to me and told my father that what he has not thought that thing happened to him from the source(Wife) which he haven't thought of it. For the sake of Humanity Help me. For the sake of God Help me. From 2004 till this date I am badly torchered by her and her relatives. My father doesn't love me from the age of 10. I had been working in Mumbai at the age of 20yr as a Customer Support Engineer for Akruti Font at Aces technologies, Crawford Market, Mumbai. I am sending my updated CV and my Photo (4 months back). When the incident of beating happened with me. I went in Jamaat(Where we people used to remain in mosque, never goes out and pray 5 times prayer and do homework for the sake of benefit for all the creatures(18000) we perform duaa. I came from Jammat on 6.7.2010. Now I am in beard. Help me, Help Me, Help Me. If they give me my money back or if they register my name in Registry, it's ok. My main aim to open the fraud they did and to let them realize their mistakes in front of all the people so that they will not repeat such things in future. Better you do Better you die. I am ready for the punishment also if I am 1% wrong. But I need this matter to be opened and let them feel their guity/crime they did in front of all others, so that they would be shameful for what they did. But my observation is that they are very much cruel and greedy persons. I don't have any documents as a proof that's why I didn't go to Court. I know that Court will ask. They have my all the documents (Bank Proof), Withdrawl amount of 40000 at 2004 from Osmanabad. and Esaarpavti by her name first and my name later.(Original one). I had given the original to her father in the year 2007 and he told that Instead of Original documents He will give me 50000/- Rs. But he didn't. When I and my wife went to see and inquire about the Plot I found that It has been registered or someone in the owner. Since 2007 I am telling my wife to do registry or call me for the signature for the registry of Plot. But none paid any heed. After a long quareel from 2004 onwards she gave the payment when i was not there(Preplanned) to my father, and there she signed the bond in Nov. 1st 2009. From that day onwards I am just asking her to show for what she signed. I didn't ask for the money for the plot (It's 3 lacs in today's date with registry), I asked for her to show what's written in the bond. she is refusing till this date. using the daughter as a tool to harass the man and extort him. Yet the Indian Government is doing nothing to protect men from rampant Domestic Violence.

Domestic violence against men, albeit a universal problem, is completely ignored by the society and the Government.
There are no laws to protect men from any form of domestic abuse.
On the other hand, legal protections given to women have been designed to serve as weapons for legal harassment of men.
The reason for the growing apathy and hatred against men in the society is the spread of radical feminist thinking in every sphere of public life, including the drafting of policies and laws.

Help me, Help the Needy, God Help those who help others.

My father on discussion with my wife and my younger brother Rizwan took me to Psycatrist at Latur to Prove that I am Mad. But I told the Doctor that I was Forced and I respect the words of my father and I came here as a huming being to you but as a patient to my father.
I am ok. I recited the whole story to him. He too agreed to me and told my father that what he has not thought that thing happened to him from the source(Wife) which he haven’t thought of it.

For the sake of Humanity Help me.
For the sake of God Help me.
From 2004 till this date I am badly torchered by her and her relatives.

My father doesn’t love me from the age of 10.
I had been working in Mumbai at the age of 20yr as a Customer Support Engineer for Akruti Font at Aces technologies, Crawford Market, Mumbai.
I am sending my updated CV and my Photo (4 months back).
When the incident of beating happened with me. I went in Jamaat(Where we people used to remain in mosque, never goes out and pray 5 times prayer and do homework for the sake of benefit for all the creatures(18000) we perform duaa. I came from Jammat on 6.7.2010.
Now I am in beard.

Help me, Help Me, Help Me.
If they give me my money back or if they register my name in Registry, it’s ok.
My main aim to open the fraud they did and to let them realize their mistakes in front of all the people so that they will not repeat such things in future.
Better you do Better you die.

I am ready for the punishment also if I am 1% wrong.
But I need this matter to be opened and let them feel their guity/crime they did in front of all others, so that they would be shameful for what they did.
But my observation is that they are very much cruel and greedy persons.
I don’t have any documents as a proof that’s why I didn’t go to Court. I know that Court will ask. They have my all the documents (Bank Proof), Withdrawl amount of 40000 at 2004 from Osmanabad.
and Esaarpavti by her name first and my name later.(Original one).
I had given the original to her father in the year 2007 and he told that Instead of Original documents He will give me 50000/- Rs.
But he didn’t.
When I and my wife went to see and inquire about the Plot I found that It has been registered or someone in the owner.
Since 2007 I am telling my wife to do registry or call me for the signature for the registry of Plot. But none paid any heed.
After a long quareel from 2004 onwards she gave the payment when i was not there(Preplanned) to my father, and there she signed the bond in Nov. 1st 2009. From that day onwards I am just asking her to show for what she signed. I didn’t ask for the money for the plot (It’s 3 lacs in today’s date with registry), I asked for her to show what’s written in the bond. she is refusing till this date.

]]> By: Ashok` http://aimwa.in/fact-sheet-on-domestic-violence-against-men-in-india#comment-288 Ashok` Fri, 30 Apr 2010 16:45:47 +0000 http://aimwa.in/?p=60#comment-288 Shalini's parents Mr. & Mrs. Sachchdanand Srivastava are the ultimate dalal type persons of their daughter Shalini Srivastava, who inspired Mrs. Shalini Srivastava a to become a loose charecter lady and to earn more & more money from selling her inner body parts to every male in her office. Regards, Ashok & Shashi Sheker. Shalini’s parents Mr. & Mrs. Sachchdanand Srivastava are the ultimate dalal type persons of their daughter Shalini Srivastava, who inspired Mrs. Shalini Srivastava a to become a loose charecter lady and to earn more & more money from selling her inner body parts to every male in her office.

Regards,

Ashok & Shashi Sheker.

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